{"id":320,"date":"2008-09-22T15:50:45","date_gmt":"2008-09-22T19:50:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jealousbrother.com\/blog\/?p=320"},"modified":"2012-02-10T10:40:38","modified_gmt":"2012-02-10T15:40:38","slug":"are-you-over-the-age-of-36-youre-a-minority-on-social-networks-but-why","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jealousbrother.com\/blog\/are-you-over-the-age-of-36-youre-a-minority-on-social-networks-but-why\/","title":{"rendered":"Are you over the age of 36? You&#8217;re a minority on Social Networks, but why?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Living in the Knoxville region of Tennessee I have become an avid listener of the \u201cMarc, Kim, and Frank\u201d morning show. They are a great balance of sweet, spicy, and just plain odd. Something was discussed the other morning which is what influenced this post. It would seem that there has been a pattern with the last two blog entries, they have had something to do with parents. Not to disappoint, this post will complete the trilogy but rest assured there are no plans for any prequels or sequels.<br \/>\n<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jealousbrother.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/mkf_film_header.jpg\"align=\"right\" style=\"padding:0 0 0 10px;\"><\/p>\n<div align=\"left\" style=\"float:right;padding-left:10px;\">\n<script src=\"http:\/\/digg.com\/tools\/diggthis.js\" type=\"text\/javascript\"><\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Marc is the proud father of three girls, of the two oldest, one is in college and the other is in high school. The only reason I mention this is because its being a father of teenage girls (likely the same for boys as well) that sparked the debate into whether or not it\u2019s acceptable for a father to have a Facebook page. I won\u2019t cover the whole discussion but let\u2019s just say his daughters cringed in embarrassment (slightly disappointed) at the very mention of their dad setting up a Facebook page, even if it was just to see pictures from his High School reunion. This was a little bit concerning to me being the owner of a social network that doesn\u2019t just discuss high school related issues but tackles issues pertinent to an older crowd as well. So here is the question at hand, is there a stigma associated with adults or more specifically parents who participate in social networks? I hope not.\n<\/p>\n<p>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.jealousbrother.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/socnetgraph.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jealousbrother.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/socnetgraph.jpg\"align=\"center\"><\/a><center>The graph above shows the percentage of users broken down by age brackets. Data used for this chart was collected from blog.rapleaf.com(Nov. 2007)(The direct link is no longer available and has been deactivated.)<\/center><br \/>\n\n<\/p>\n<p>\n<br \/>\nSadly enough the graph resembles water slides at Dollywood Splash Country (East Tennessee Water Park). This is not encouraging news for website owners like me. The graph covers three of the more popular social networks but it should be noted that until recently Facebook only allowed users with student email addresses, so this may be to blame for their water slide demographic but what about the others? So what is it that keeps adults over the age of 36 from participating on social networks? Is it an embarrassing stigma, a lack of experience with computers, the abundance of young users, or just the overall lack of interest? I\u2019m going to guess and say it\u2019s a bit of everything. Throughout my life I have lived by many mottos but one more than others, \u201cwhen in doubt &#8211; just ask mom\u201d so that is exactly what I did. I asked mom what kept her and other people over the age of 36 from participating in social networks. Here is what my mother had to say:\n<\/p>\n<p>\n<br \/>\n<em><strong>\u201cI believe that many older people don\u2019t use social networks mostly because they are too complicated.  Most of us middle aged and older people have learned basic computer skills but we\u2019ve had to learn them later in life.  I think this does create some limits for many of us.  I am determined to overcome my fear of the internet and all it entails but I have to go slowly or I feel overwhelmed.<br \/>\n<br \/>\nJealousBrother.com was the first social network I\u2019ve actually been able to sign up for and navigate around without any help. I feel like I\u2019ve taken a big step towards overcoming some of my \u201cinternet fear\u201d and have found that I really enjoy going on there to see what other people are saying about today\u2019s issues and giving my opinion as well.<br \/>\n<br \/>\nI urge my fellow middle aged and older people to take a deep breath and jump in to JealousBrother.com.  It\u2019s easy to sign up and get around in and it\u2019s fun.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n\n<\/p>\n<p>\n<br \/>\nI don\u2019t think it\u2019s impossible for a social network to be more welcoming to people of all ages, not to do a shameless self promotion but JealousBrother.com covers topics that should interest teenagers all the way up to retirees. With rivalries stretching from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.jealousbrother.com\/rivalries\/email-vs-texting\">texting versus emailing<\/a> to the statue of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.jealousbrother.com\/rivalries\/mona-lisa-vs-statue-of-david\">David versus the Mona Lisa<\/a>, it\u2019s easy to see why people of any age bracket could find something to participate in and if you don\u2019t see something you like, add your ideas and opinions to the website by starting your own rivalry.<br \/>\n<br \/> \n<\/p>\n<p>\n<br \/>\nIn addition to the fear of not knowing how to get around mentioned by my mother, I think there is a definite stigma associated with most social networks and we should all understand why Marc\u2019s daughters would be embarrassed if their dad set up a Facebook page.  However, Facebook has always been aimed at a younger crowd until recently when they opened it up to everyone. It would be easy to get intimidated by a website that is absolutely dominated by a younger population. JealousBrother is different, we\u2019re a very new website, everyone is invited to participate, and the website is very easy to navigate. Throughout the fifteen plus months of development (still in development), ease of use was always one of our biggest priorities. JealousBrother currently has over 130 users (growing daily) from nearly every age bracket, including my wife\u2019s grandfather of 73 who is very active on the website.<br \/>\n\n<\/p>\n<p>\n<br \/>\nIf the stigma exists, is it there for good? I\u2019m attempting to stay optimistic by saying I think it can in part be lifted from society\u2019s perception but likely will not be completely chalked off. There are far too many negatives because of a small number of people out there that create these unattractive opinions of social networks through inappropriate content and unbelievable behavior. The stigma may be a difficult thing to compete with but it is still possible to broaden the age diversity through individual efforts and social networks that accommodate users of all ages. So everyone out there, reassure your parents and grandparents that there\u2019s nothing wrong with joining a social network, spend a few minutes each week teaching them how to use the computer, inform them that JealousBrother isn\u2019t just for kids and is easy to use, and hopefully any lack of interest they had before will now be alleviated.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Living in the Knoxville region of Tennessee I have become an avid listener of the \u201cMarc, Kim, and Frank\u201d morning show. They are a great balance of sweet, spicy, and just plain odd. Something was discussed the other morning which is what influenced this post. 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